Couples & Intimacy Specialist

Are you more like room mates?
Do you struggle over intimacy?
Are you tired of living unhappy?

Do You Wish It Didn't Have To Be This Hard To Feel More Connected And Intimate Again?

What If There Was A Way To End This Just Room Mate Status, Loneliness And Disconnection?

Well THERE IS and couples learn how to reconnect with help!!

Book Your Call With Monica Houttuin ~ set a time to talk

What Issues Concern You, Click Video Link Below

Communicate Better

Stop Walking On Eggshells

Sexual Intimacy

End The Friend Zone

Affair Recovery

There Is Hope To Heal

About Monica Houttuin

Hi I’m Monica

…and it is My Mission to help couples to reconnect, heal quickly and then be able to pursue their life’s dreams together….. even if you are pretty good (and especially when it’s gotten really tough).

Often we don’t actually know that we are doing too little, too late. Sometimes we just don’t know the precise things we need to do, or that are required to maintain and grow the joy, pleasure and connection in our intimate relationship. It’s not your fault.

 

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Would you like to communicate, trust, and transform the intimacy you have with your spouse?

Are you struggling to heal after infidelity?
Maybe you struggle to feel close emotionally or physically with your spouse or partner?
Have you tried multiple things to get the passion back in your relationship but you're tired of getting nowhere and tired of struggling with the same problems over and over?
Today you are one step closer to a new you because you're considering outside help. You will finally get somewhere and with the right help you'll be on a positive path to reconnecting with your spouse and yourself again.


Is This Right For You?

If you're looking for expert care and advice through a challenging situation in your relationship, if you want healing from significant relationship trauma, or you're just ready to move in a new direction in your life, or if you want your best friend back, I can help you achieve your goals.

As a Couples and Intimacy Specialty and Sex Therapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating. While we can't change difficult situations of the past, we can work together to better understand and resolve challenges in your life today.

By applying complimentary therapy approaches and techniques, EFT, Gottman, Attachment Theories as well as Affair Recovery, we will unearth long-standing behavior patterns or negative perceptions that may be holding you back from experiencing a more fulfilling and meaningful life.

Let's Heal your hearts and explore you couple potential.

My husband and I are doing WONDERFUL!! All the little things we have learned from you we still use! If it wasn’t for you and your communication teaching we would not be where we are. This last year has been the best year of our lives!! Take care and as always thank you so much for all you have done!
By going through your course, my wife and I gained insight into each other and ourselves that wouldn’t otherwise have been possible. What made this so valuable to us is that we did it together. The efforts that we made and the time spent was all done together. We invested in the process together and the product was new growth, together. We find ourselves able to be tender again. We’re able to be compassionate, and understanding too. For all this, we’re better spouses to each other and far better parents to our children. That makes our experience with you just about the most beautiful thing I can imagine. Thank you.
My husband and I were at a critical point in our marriage. Communication was difficult and I was struggling to have my feelings validated and addressed. In addition to that, I was struggling with depression and anxiety and it was taking a toll on my physical as well as emotional health, almost to the point of not being able to function on a daily basis.
You have taught us so MUCH I wish I had KNOWN EARLIER in our Marriage.
Monica, This Valentine’s Day is being brought to you by……YOU! When I reflect on our love and marriage, I am thankful for the work that you helped us partake in. It’s hard. Really hard. But so worth it. Our family is not only surviving but thriving, thanks to your guidance and help. It’s not perfect and still many ups and downs along the way, but we have each other. Many thanks to you. Happy Valentines Day.
If I could share one thing about our experience with Monica, it is that every marriage can use the guidance of a therapist like her. She told us that the, “M” in marriage stands for, “maintenance.” I believe that the maintenance techniques she taught us have helped our marriage grow stronger than it could have been without her guidance. We highly recommend Monica!
My husband and I are doing WONDERFUL!! All the little things we have learned from you we still use! If it wasn’t for you and your communication teaching we would not be where we are. This last year has been the best year of our lives!! Take care and as always thank you so much for all you have done!
“I am grateful for your guidance in learning these new tools to better understanding how to be there for one another. We spent most of (the next) day talking with one another making sure we both felt safe before broaching a subject and even during the conversations. It was really uplifting, relieving and hopeful to our future as a couple. I do look forward to keeping in contact with you.”
Just Got Married Yesterday Hi Monica! So WE got married yesterday!! And it really couldn’t have gone better. 🙂 But we just wanted to say thank you for being our awesome counselor and for all the help you gave us to prepare for our lives together. We hope other couples can benefit from pre-marital counseling from you like we did! Thanks again
“Monica, My wife and I are doing well, very well in fact. You’re assistance has been an incredible help to us, and we can’t thank you enough. It’s been a success story! There are ups and downs, hills and valleys, but we always end up using the techniques that you’ve shown us. You have saved us, and we will be forever grateful for that. And I personally am grateful, helping me to understand and evaluate my PTSD. You’ve saved me, Monica. So thankful for you”
Our intimacy is stronger than ever before. We still have our weekly meetings and have compromised on some really big things for us. We have actually made some breakthroughs.”
” I am grateful for your guidance in learning these new tools to better understanding how to be there for one another. We spent most of (the next) day talking with one another making sure we both felt safe before broaching a subject and even during the conversations. It was really uplifting, relieving and hopeful to our future as a couple. I do look forward to keeping in contact with you. “
~Couple Mid 40’s Affair Recovery Retreat
“By going through your coarse, my wife and I gained insight into each other and ourselves that wouldn’t otherwise have been possible. What made this so valuable to us is that we did it together. The efforts that we made and the time spent was all done together. We invested in the process together and the product was new growth, together. We find ourselves able to be tender again. We’re able to be compassionate, and understanding too. For all this, we’re better spouses to each other and far better parents to our children. That makes our experience with you just about the most beautiful thing I can imagine. Thank you”
~Husband age 45 married with two children